Words hold power, much like a leprechaun’s gold—shimmering with potential, waiting to shape our fortunes. The language we use in everyday communication, especially in emails, determines not just how others perceive us but also how we perceive ourselves. Without realizing it, we may be planting seeds of scarcity rather than cultivating an abundant, lucky clover-filled mindset. And one of the biggest mischief-makers in our vocabulary? The word unfortunately.

Why You Should Banish “Unfortunately” from Your Word Cauldron

Many of us have been conditioned to use unfortunately when delivering news that isn’t ideal for the recipient. For example:

✨ “Unfortunately, I am already booked that day.” ✨ “Unfortunately, I won’t be able to attend.” ✨ “Unfortunately, I don’t have the capacity to take this on right now.”

Though it may seem like a polite way to soften a message, this word carries an energy of misfortune, like a leprechaun who’s just lost his pot of gold. It implies something unlucky is happening to you rather than that you are making a choice based on your priorities.

Turning “Unfortunately” into a Four-Leaf Clover

Instead of focusing on scarcity, let’s sprinkle a bit of St. Patrick’s Day magic into our words and frame our responses with gratitude and empowerment:

🍀 “I’m so grateful to be fully committed that day. Let’s find another time that works!” 🍀 “I appreciate the invitation! I won’t be able to attend this time, but I look forward to the next opportunity.” 🍀 “Right now, my schedule is at full capacity, and I want to ensure I’m giving my best to my current commitments. Thank you for thinking of me!”

Harnessing the Luck of Intentional Language

By making these small but mighty shifts, you are aligning yourself with an abundance mindset—like spotting a lucky clover in a field of green. Instead of seeing a full schedule as an inconvenience, recognize it as proof that you are valued and in demand. Instead of declining an opportunity with a sigh, leave the door open with appreciation and possibility.

The Over-Apologizing Trap

Many people have an automatic habit of over-apologizing, saying sorry when it’s not necessary. If you find yourself constantly apologizing—whether for taking up space, needing time, or simply existing—pause. Instead of reinforcing guilt, reframe it with gratitude.

🍀 Instead of “Sorry for the delay,” try “Thank you for your patience.” 🍀 Instead of “Sorry for bothering you,” try “I appreciate your time and attention.” 🍀 Instead of “Sorry for the mistake,” try “I appreciate the opportunity to correct this.”

By shifting from apology to gratitude, you replace self-doubt with confidence, and scarcity with abundance. Like a leprechaun guarding his gold, be mindful of the words you treasure and share. With each intentional shift, you are weaving a reality filled with confidence, gratitude, and opportunity. And who knows? With language like this, you may just find a bit more luck rolling your way.

© Kristin McGinnis 2025 All Rights Reserved.

Kristin McGinnis is the Founder & CEO of Conscious Business Connections, bringing over 15 years in hospitality, a decade in the financial sector, and extensive consulting experience. A pioneer in conscious leadership and sustainability, Kristin’s mission is to empower leaders to embrace strategies that achieve success while fostering a regenerative and harmonious world. Discover more about Kristin’s transformative vision at https://consciousbusinessconnections.org/leadership/